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 Some interesting "Pinoys" response of being a Filipino!!!


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Plase call me PINOY!
Hi Perry:
I'd been receiving your letters almost every day and let me tell you
something! I'm not a Philippine.
The reason I'm getting your letters is because I used to advertise in some
Philippine papers and that's how you got my e-mail address.
My assistant is from the Philippines and because of her, I started paying
more attention to this culture, and the more I know, the more intrigued I'm for
this marvelous culture and this beautiful people.
I'm from El Salvador but my look is very much like of a Philippino, except
that I'm 5'10 and many people think of me as a Filipino and speak Tagalog to
me. Anyway, after 5 years relating to this beautiful people, I considered
myself a PINOY!
I want to go and see the country by myself; I want to have the fortune to be
able to retire and live my last days of my life in your country.
I love Pilita Corrales music and have the greatest pleasure of meeting her in
person right here in Toronto. I spoke to her and asked to sing for me
Carinosa, Which she did.
To finish this, I just want to ask you: please, call me PINOY! It would be a
honor for me!

Roberto Hernandez
Toronto, Canada

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Am I a Filipino, am I a Pinoy?
Born to a white woman and a Filipino Father.
Am I a Filipino?
My father, like “ALL” proud Filipino Fathers refused to
teach me Tagalog or Ilocano, English was all I knew
Am I a Filipino?
I am fair skinned, very different from my father and my relatives
So different that other Pinoys in my Jr. HS thought
I was Cuban and wanted to fight with me.
Am I a Filipino?
One of my first Pinoy friend asked what was I,
I replied the same as you
Am I a Filipino?
He thought I was lying until he met my dad who
greeted him in a Visayan dialect. He was Waray
My father always told me I AM A FILIPINO!
But am I Filipino?
I could not speak a word of “Pilipino” until I took
a class at the City College of SF.
Am I a Filipino?
I was lucky to join the USAF and was station at
Clark but no one knew I was Filipino
Am I a Filipino?
One of my first cousins tutored me in Pilipino
now I can speak Tagalog
But am I a Filipino?
My wife who was born in the same town as my
dad is a Filipina
But am I a Filipino?
My Children can say they are 1/4 kano, 1/2 Ilocano and 1/4 Visayan
But are we Filipino's?
My only answer is this the blood that runs in my veins is my fathers,
the way I have
always thought, the love I have for the Filipino people, culture, the
food [including balut and aso] and all their faults, the
poverty and the lack of integrity of the politicians
YOU’RE Damn Right I AM a Proud Filipino, a Pinoy till the day I die!

Rico Fontillas, MD




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 Note, the topic and the reaction is 98% positive. All we need now is ACTION.
We are
a great artistic people, disoriented , most of the time. The political
conditions (in the PHil.
is proof enough. Where can you find a people, with as much gift of laughter?
A people
who laughs, in spite "there whole world is too much". I refer you to Frankie
Sionil Jose's
VIAJERO,Solidaridad , 1993. I wish for our people.....who reads....and
digest.
Sionil Jose, is now writing about Gen Artemio Ricarte y Vibora, in novel
form. If we can
not articulate, our people's wishes in the arts....we will be a nation of
"borrowers".
We seem to borrow negative things. I had better stop. Merry Christmas

max fabella from florida

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Well said Max. Despite most Filipinos describe life in the Phil as difficult, by far its nothing compared to other third worldt countries. Where in the world can you find a person with no job and yet having a good time with friends in some other people's place.
Life is easy in the Phil that one can liveby asking dole outs from friends or relatives.
The Phil weatherwise is perfect year round. Unlike in countries where winter can be brutal...where one has to prepare for winter like saving food/fuel and other necessary items needed to survive winter. We dont do that in the Phil. That is how blessed the Phil is and maybe because of this we take things for granted and take things easy. The sun will shine next day anyway so why worry. It is this kind of thinking that makes most of our kababayans lazy.
People I think dont give 100% of their effort doing their job. Yet the very same people once placed in a different country excell in their fields of endeavor.Like you said wha twe need is action ...enough of this talk.

Alex from NY

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An article by CPR on being Filipino--------------.Carlos P. Romulo I am a Filipino - inheritor of a glorious past, hostage to the uncertain future. As such I must prove equal to a twofold task- the task of meeting my responsibility to the past, and the task of performing my obligation to the future. I am sprung from a hardy race - child of many generations removed of ancient Malayan pioneers. Across the centuries, the memory comes rushing back to me: of brown-skinned men putting out to sea in ships that were as frail as their hearts were stout. Over the sea I see them come, borne upon the billowing wave and the whistling wind, carried upon the mighty swell of hope - hope in the free abundance of new land that was to be their home and their children's forever. This is the land they sought and found. Every inch of shore that their eyes first set upon, every hill and mountain that beckoned to them with a green and purple invitation, every mile of rolling plain that their view encompassed, every river and lake that promise a plentiful living and the fruitfulness of commerce, is a hollowed spot to me. By the strength of their hearts and hands, by every right of law, human and divine, this land and all the appurtenances thereto - the black and fertile soil, the seas and lakes and rivers teeming with fish, the forests with their inexhaustible wealth in wild life and timber, the mountains with their bowels swollen with minerals - the whole of this rich and happy land has been, for centuries without number, the land of my fathers. This land I received in trust from them and in trust I will pass it to my children, and so on until the world is no more. I am a Filipino. In my blood runs the immortal seed of heroes - seed that flowered down the centuries in deeds of courage and defiance. In my veins yet pulses the same hot blood that sent Lapulapu to battle against the first invader of this land, that nerved Lakandula to combat the alien foe, that drove Diego Silang and Dagohoy into rebellion against the foreign oppressor. That seed is immortal. It is the self-same seed that flowered in the heart of Jose Rizal that morning in Bagumbayan when a volley of shots put an end to all that was mortal of him and made his spirit deathless forever; the same that flowered in the hearts of Bonifacio in Balintawak, of Gergorio del Pilar at Tirad Pass, of Antonio Luna at Calumpit; that bloomed in flowers of frustration in the sad heart of Emilio Aguinaldo at Palanan, and yet burst forth royally again in the proud heart of Manuel L. Quezon when he stood at last on the threshold of ancient Malacaang Palace, in the symbolic act of possession and racial vindication. The seed I bear within me is an immortal seed. It is the mark of my manhood, the symbol of my dignity as a human being. Like the seeds that were once buried in the tomb of Tutankhamen many thousand years ago, it shall grow and flower and bear fruit again. It is the insignia of my race, and my generation is but a stage in the unending search of my people for freedom and happiness. I am a Filipino, child of the marriage of the East and the West. The East, with its languor and mysticism, its passivity and endurance, was my mother, and my sire was the West that came thundering across the seas with the Cross and Sword and the Machine. I am of the East, an eager participant in its struggles for liberation from the imperialist yoke. But I also know that the East must awake from its centuried sleep, shake of the lethargy that has bound his limbs, and start moving where destiny awaits. For I, too, am of the West, and the vigorous peoples of the West have destroyed forever the peace and quiet that once were ours. I can no longer live, being apart from those world now trembles to the roar of bomb and cannon shot. For no man and no nation is an island, but a part of the main, there is no longer any East and West - only individuals and nations making those momentous choices that are hinges upon which history resolves. At the vanguard of progress in this part of the world I stand - a forlorn figure in the eyes of some, but not one defeated and lost. For through the thick, interlacing branches of habit and custom above me I have seen the light of the sun, and I know that it is good. I have seen the light of justice and equality and freedom and my heart has been lifted by the vision of democracy, and I shall not rest until my land and my people shall have been blessed by these, beyond the power of any man or nation to subvert or destroy. I am a Filipino, and this is my inheritance. What pledge shall I give that I may prove worthy of my inheritance? I shall give the pledge that has come ringing down the corridors of the centuries, and it shall be compounded of the joyous cries of my Malayan forebears when they first saw the contours of this land loom before their eyes, of the battle cries that have resounded in every field of combat from Mactan to Tirad pass, of the voices of my people when they sing: Land of the Morning
Child of the sun returning
Ne'er shall invaders
Trample thy sacred shore. Out of the lush green of these seven thousand isles, out of the heartstrings of sixteen million people all vibrating to one song, I shall weave the mighty fabric of my pledge. Out of the songs of the farmers at sunrise when they go to labor in the fields; out of the sweat of the hard-bitten pioneers in Mal-ig and Koronadal; out of the silent endurance of stevedores at the piers and the ominous grumbling of peasants in Pampanga; out of the first cries of babies newly born and the lullabies that mothers sing; out of the crashing of gears and the whine of turbines in the factories; out of the crunch of ploughs upturning the earth; out of the limitless patience of teachers in the classrooms and doctors in the clinics; out of the tramp of soldiers marching, I shall make the pattern of my pledge: I am a Filipino born of freedom and I shall not rest until freedom shall have been added unto my inheritance - for myself and my children's children - forever.

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Election is coming... let your vote count. Select a leader fit to lead our people into a new era. An era of righteousness, service and compassion to its people.-------------------------------------Leaders our nation needs
By Alexander L. Lacson

Inquirer
01/29/2007

MANILA, Philippines- -When God decided to build a nation for His people, He didnt call upon them as a whole. Instead, He called on one personAbraham to do the job, and He made him the leader. When God wanted to deliver His people from the bondage of slavery in Egypt, He didnt talk to the people as a whole. Instead, He raised one leaderMosesto do it. When He wanted His people to cross the wilderness on to the Promised LandGod appointed Joshua. In the Bible, each time God wanted to do something great, He always called on one personone whom He molded to become a leaderto do the task. But in our times, God no longer speaks directly to man the way He did during the times in the Old Testament. Today, God speaks to us indirectlythrough the signs and subtle messages He sends our way. Today, leaders are elected by the people. Every election, therefore, becomes a call to leadership. While many run for money and power, there are those who run because they feel it is their calling to serve the people. But often, it is difficult to differentiate one candidate from another. This brings me to the pointwhat should we look for in a candidate? What kind of leaders does our nation need today? Lao Tzu, a famous Chinese philosopher, saidIn choosing a leader, character is the most important quality. Intelligence and skills come second in importance. US President Theodore Roosevelt said that intelligence without morality is a great danger to society. Abraham Lincoln, one of the greatest leaders mankind has ever produced, saidPower is best used by a leader who has strong moral character. Plato said He who does not seek power is the most qualified to hold it. Park Chung-hee, president of South Korea from 1961 to 1979in his desire to build a good government in his countryused honesty as the first criteria in appointing leaders and officials to government. When he died in 1979, he left a government that was highly credible in the eyes of its people, and an economy that became one of Asias economic miracles. Despite serving as his nations leader for 18 years, President Park died a poor man in 1979, with little money in the bank, and left only one property to his familyan old, small apartment that he and his wife bought in 1961, before he was installed as president. In early 19th century, Alexander de Tocqueville, a French statesman, sought to understand Americas greatness, and this is what he discovered, in his own words. I sought for the greatness and genius of America in her commodious harbors and her ample rivers, and it was not there.... I sought for the greatness and genius of America in her public school system and her institutions of learning, and it was not there. I sought for the greatness and genius of America in her democratic congress and her matchless constitution, and it was not there. Not until I went into the churches of America and heard her pulpits aflame with righteousness did I understand the secret of her genius and greatness. America is great because America is good, and if America ever ceases to be good, America will cease to be great. My dear countrymen, please let us make moral characteror righteousness as our first criteria in voting for candidates this May 2007 elections. It is our obligation to do so. Aristotle said, The salvation of the community (nation) should be the common business of good citizens. Today, more than ever, our country needs leaders who cannot be bought; whose word is their bond; who put character above wealth; who will be honest in small things as in great things; who will make no compromises with wrong; whose ambitions are not confined to their own selfish desires. (With apologies to Charles Swindoll who penned The World Needs Men.) Leaders who, by their love for our country, can unite us Filipinos, wherever we may be in this archipelago or in the world, whatever our religions are, whether we are loyalists of Marcos, Cory or Erap. Leaders who, by their sincerity and humility, can bring out the best in us as a people, so we may discard the indifference and selfishness among our rich, the despair and lack of spirit among our poor, the greed and ambition among our leaders. Leaders who can inspire our entire nation to work as one to do great things, including sacrifices, for the good of our nation. Leaders who value honor, whose word is their bond, whose oath of office their commitment. Leaders who cannot be bought, who will be honest in small things and in great things. Leaders whose stand on right and wrong is as clear as black and white, whose principles and values are beyond the reach of money, who are brave and bold to do what is right. Leaders whose love of country is greater than love for ones self and family, and who shall be willing to march into hell so that the Filipinos may have heaven on this planet. Leaders like Abraham Lincoln, George Washington, Mahatma Gandhi, David Ben Gurion, Lee Kuan Yew and Park Chung-hee. For the stories of these menconsidered as fathers of their nations todayall point to one clear truth: that the task of building a nation begins in the heart. Alexander L. Lacson, is author of the bestseller book 12 Little Things Every Filipino Can Do To Help Our Country. A lawyer by profession, he finished law at UP and has taken post graduate studies at Harvard Law School in Cambridge, Massachusetts, USA.Posted by Alex from NY.

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The Man Who Spoke Tagalog

There was a time in my little town of Santa Barbara,
Pangasinan, in the Philippines, when speaking Tagalog
(and English, of course) earned the the speaker some
ridicule. This was because in a rural town Tagalog was
still largely associated with sophisticated city life
in Manila and any returning townmate speaking Tagalog
was viewed as pompous.
I do not know if my father was viewed as such. Not
that I know of any anecdote about him that he spoke
Tagalog with arrogant affectations. After all there
was no reason for him to speak Tagalog with anyone in
the hometown.
But he spoke Tagalog comfortably, long before it
became the supposed basis of todays Pilipino, the
national language of the Philippines. Pilipino, if one
cares to admit, is Tagalog, of course. My father was
conversant with it before sophisticated or
pseudo-sophisticate d characters in my hometown could
do so with funny awkwardness.
What happened was that as a newly married young man
he brought his new bride south to far Tagalog country,
beyond Manila, to a large sugar plantation in
Canlubang, Laguna Province. He worked as a truck
driver hauling sugar cane from the fields to the
mills. He must have worked there for only a couple of
years or so because three years after my parents got
married I was born a couple of a hundred miles way up
north of Canlubang. Apparently, within that short
time, it was long enough for him to be able to learn
what was then a novel dialect called Tagalog.
My mother said that I was actually born in Trinidad,
Benguet, up in the mountains near the resort city of
Baguio where my father worked after Canlubang. But on
instructions of my Natividad grandfather, possibly out
of sentimentality, I was taken down to our lowland
hometown to be registered and baptized.
Trinidad was originally peopled by Igorot
tribes and I remember being teased by my aunts and
uncles that everytime I got dirty from playing
outdoors they called me an Igorot. Lowland Christians
stupidly stereotyped Igorots as an unkempt minority
tribe.
I know now, of course, that teasing one as an
Igorot is as stupid as Western people teasing
Orientals as inscrutable little characters who all
look alike. Igorots, after all, have more of their
ancestral cultures still relatively intact. To this
extent they have a cultural edge over Christian
lowlanders who failed to preserve their pre-hispanic
culture.
Back to Tagalog...
My feeling is that Tagalog was touted as the basis
of the national language to make it look neutral to
appease non-Tagalogs whose languages were not selected
as the national language. I have no proof to support
that feeling, of course. However, the fact that a
Tagalog, Manuel Quezon, was president at the time a
national language was chosen, may have been an
unadmitted factor in annointing Tagalog as the
national language.
Had Sergio Osmena been in power instead of Quezon,
Cebuano could have been the national language. I have
heard somewhere that Cebuano-speaking people
outnumbered Tagalog speakers before Tagalog was chosen
as the the basis of a national language. Today, of
course, Tagalog would appear to foreigners as endemic
all over the Philippines.
Had the national language been chosen when Elpidio
Quirino (or Ferdinand Marcos) was in power, Ilocano
could have been the national language. After all,
Ilocanos are widely known for their pioneering spirit
in migrating to many places outside Ilocandia. For
instance, in Pangasinan province, the majority of
towns now speak Ilocano. As of this writing, only
thirteen out of almost fifty towns have so far
remained speaking Pangasinan.
I dont know if it is true that even in as far
as Hawaii some places had street signs that were in
both English and Ilocano. Many Ilocanos were recruited
as sugar farm hands in Hawaii long before World War
II.
Anyway, back to Tagalog again...
Years ago, when I was in high school, schools began
to teach Tagalog in earnest as the national language.
My Tagalog dictionary was my father. That is, when he
was at home. He was an interprovincial bus driver and
most of the time he was out of town.
Times have changed since my fathers time. In my last
visit to my hometown when my mother passed away I
found that kids spoke Tagalog offhandedly without
conscious pompousity as in the past. Meanwhile,
unfortunately, adults spoke Tagalog in the widely
accepted form of hilarious Taglish.
Taglish, I think, does not speak well for a world
image of the Philippines. Like pidgin English it is
hilarious to the ears of real English speakers. What
brought Taglish about? The mandatory use of English in
schools and internal affairs in the Philippines, may,
arguably, be one cause of Taglish. People tend to
forget original Tagalog terms and quickly substitute
English.
Example: Nag bik ng kik ba ang mudder mo
noong Tangsgibing? (Did your mother (mudder) bake a
cake (bik ng kik) last Thanksgiving (noong
Tangsgibing) ?
It is a tribute to the colonial prowess of American
administrators that, after imposing English in the
Philippines in a matter of less than half a century
(1898-1946), Filipinos have considered English as a
part of their national culture. The tragedy, however,
is that when the Americans left, Filipinos found
themselves speaking funny Taglish.
Back in 1898, the Philippine-American War followed
the Spanish-American War when Filipinos refused to
recognize the cession of the Philippines by Spain to
the United States.
Not surprisingly the Filipinos lost to
American superior training and equipment. What may be
surprising is that it took the Americans longer to
defeat the Filipinos than it took them to defeat the
Spaniards. The United States deployed about 75% of
their relatively modern military resources that
finally extinguished immediate hopes of Philippine
freedom after more than three centuries of Spanish
oppression.
Stories ran that English was promptly imposed
on the vanquished Filipinos. Some American soldiers
served as the first English tutors who were eventually
replaced by young, civilian volunteer teachers from
the United States.
To this day, sixty years after the Americans
left, English remains an official language in the
Philippines. It may be argued that since English has
become the most visible international language it is
to the benefit of the Philippines to stick to it as a
part of its language culture.
What is ignored is that typical Filipinos on
the street murdered both English and Tagalog into
Taglish. Also ignored is that only a tiny number of
Filipinos are tasked to deal with - or work - abroad;
that they can learn English as a special foreign
language without subjecting the whole country into
using English in its internal affairs.
Many non-English speaking countries teach English
only as a secondary tool for their international
relations. Their school system, their government,
their internal affairs, etc. still proudly use their
respective native languages. Non English-speaking
people whose careers would require English can study
it as a special discipline.
Filipinos can do the same thing.
But in the Philippines English appears to be status a
symbol. It does not matter that it is murdered into
Taglish. Few, however, may admit that speaking
English, or the attempt to speak English, is a status
symbol. They cannot admit that a colonial mentality is
still deeply embedded in the fabric of Filipino mores.
I once heard someone declare how high society types in
Manila spoke Taglish with pride and sophisticated
finesse!
When my father was alive I dont remember him
speaking Taglish. But he did use certain English
words, not because it is a reflex, but because some
English words, indeed, have no Tagalog equivalents.
Anyway, due to disuse, his English leaves much to be
desired spite of his seventh grade education of the
1920's which would have qualified him to be a
schoolteacher in the midpoint years of the American
occupation of the Philippines.
He chose to be a bus driver instead while
quite a few people with equivalent education chose -
were recruited - to become teachers without going to
high school and college. Today, of course, teachers
have to finish college and pass government
examinations.
His English was handy when he was drafted in World
War II and was among those holed up in Bataan. His
unit, the 11th Division, Philippine Army, was under
the command of American officers. However, my fathers
actual contacts with them were rare.
It was scary enough that he was always in harms way
driving men and supplies to and from the front lines.
So, like other Filipino conscripts he dreaded the
additional ordeal of trying to understand American
officers snarling orders in an incomprehensible
accent.
As a consequence Filipinos in Bataan used among
themselves Tagalog instead of English. That was how my
fathers Tagalog improved and served him well in
Bataan. Filipino officers issued orders in Tagalog
even if at the time Tagalog, to be officially called
Pilipino after the war, was not yet universally used
as the Philippine National Language.

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Fred N
Livonia, MI


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Some personal expression of ones loveto our native land. A repost.
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Love of country
Posted by: "Cita Garcia" citagrc@gmail.com citagrc Fri Feb9,2007 5:37am (PST) Dear Adelinda,
this is Cita Garcia, many call me mama cita, am a lawyer and quite old (66
years). I have seen the years passed by, and travelled quite far and wide,
but what I can say is the Philippines is the land of my birth and it is
beautiful.
thank you to all of you Pinoys out there you have given up somuch by leaving
your country to look for whatever one search for to make living a little
better. You are a good daughter, a good mother and a good citizen.I love
what you wrote particularly when you say you bring your children to the
Philippines and they do not see the difference between the comfort they have
in Canada and the little we have here.
Bless your soul.
Best regards.
Mama Cita

On 2/6/07, adelinda vadil <zamboanguena2001@ yahoo.ca> wrote:
>
> i agree with you totallythat love can be manifested in so many
> ways.just because we left the philippines does not mean we forgot where we
> come from.dont we go home to visit our nativeland and enjoy the sights of
> the land and buy filipino goods as pasalubong for our western friends.thatis promoting our country don't you think.
> my kids although born and raise in canada consider themselves filipinos.ihave instilled to them my culture and introduced them to pinoy foods from
> birth. they relish pinakbet and puto or suman.their vacation in the
> philippines are treasured.they have lived in the barrio with my kins to
> know what poverty means and ate tuyo,with their hands. they were happy
> playing with the cousins inspite of the language barrier.not once did they
> belittle life in the philippines.
> there are ways of showing your love of the country.i just wish that people
> in the philippines dont judge us who have left and sought for greener
> pastures.being here gave me the privelege of sending my brother and sister
> to school in the philippines and also gave my parents a chance to see the
> other side of the world.we love our family so much so we strive to make
> their life better with every bounty we derive from our work here.you can't
> deny that the dollars we send to our family made the philippines prosper
> economically and made it possible for the country to produce educated youth
> who are sought by foreign companies.the influx of talents to foreign
> countries is proof that we do care what happens to our country.we have
> proven over the years that inspite of the poverty in the philippines there
> is wealth in the graduates from our schools.fipilinos are hard workers and
> dependable and that alone gives us pride to say we are still filipinos by
> heart.
>
> ----- Original Message ----
> From: A N <frednati@yahoo. com>
> Sent: Monday, February 5, 2007 8:48:54 AM
> Subject: Love of country (FW: Please pass
> it to all Filipinos you know)
>
> (sent blind to a few others)
>
> Jean,
>
> It is a presumption, arguable or not, that most anyone
> loves one's country, native or adopted. To the extent,
> and within limits, of this presumption, you and I are
> in agreement.
>
> But it might meaningful to realize that there are many
> options to manifest that kind of love.
>
> It could take the form of pride in a countryman's
> positive achievements on uneven playing fields abroad,
> or of succor to a countryman in need. It could be the
> simple pleasure of being identified as a native of
> one's country in spite of having acquired foreign
> citizenship that, to begin with, came about for
> complex reasons - in my case originally - and
> basically - economic.
>
> There is, however, the likely misinterpretation of
> one's actions in this regard.
>
> I do not like Filipino crooks nor incompetent Filipino
> decision makers. Neither do I like arrogance that
> hides one's inferiority complex, such as the cockiness
> of laughable characters who use venomous language in
> expressing their opinions.
>
> But such dislikes, no matter how intense, are not
> reasons nor interpretations that I do not love my
> native land anymore.
>
> I have become a citizen of the United States, and,
> without a gun pressed on my head, I will discharge my
> obligations for such privilege which I worked hard to
> earn. But that does not mean that I do not love my
> native land anymore.
>
> So I share your laments (who doesn't?) - that the
> country whence we sprouted is infested with characters
> who give it a nasty reputation. But it is still a
> country its natives are proud of. In spite of the
> decadence of its ruling elite it is endowed with
> natural beauty and its traditions are still treasures
> in our memories. Filipinos are, in spite of unadmitted
> colonial mentality, basically and uniquely Filipinos
> whether at home or abroad.
>
> =====

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A Truer Face of the Philippines, a Face Hidden from Americans
Sunday, Apr 15, 2007

The day after the mudslide on the island of Leyte in the Philippines was reported in the United States, I received a worried phone call from a colleague here at the University of Georgia. Tim had seen footage of the tragedy on the evening news. Though unsure where in the Philippines it had occurred, he was concerned that my wife Pam's family had been caught up in the event. I thanked him for his concern and responded that I was confident Pam's family wasn't involved.


Pam grew up in Los Baos, Laguna and her home is not very close to hills or mountains that would threaten mudslides. Over the next week my assurance to Tim was repeated to many others who were concerned for Pam. I was grateful that they cared enough about her family to ask for clarification.

On long solitary drives across Georgia that week, I had plenty of time to
think about this latest tragedy in the Philippines and to ponder its
implications.

My first realizations were that good news from the Philippines is rarely
reported in the United States and that most Americans know very little
about the archipelago nation. Our countries have shared a very close
history over the past 100 years; the Philippines was a protectorate of the
United States for nearly 50 years after the conclusion of the
Spanish-American War. American soldiers fought and died alongside Filipino
troops in the battles against the Japanese in World War II. Strategic
American air and naval bases were maintained in the Philippines until the
early 1990s. Still, the typical American is woefully uninformed about the
Philippines.

More importantly, the little that is known paints a picture of this country that is, at best skewed, and at worst perpetuates regrettable stereotypes
of the culture and citizens. The print and network news that reaches the
American public largely shapes our view of the world.

If I were to take guess at the most common perceptions Americans have of the Philippines, they would be as follows, not necessarily in any particular order:

1. The Philippines is a nation of continual natural disasters, such as
mudslides, volcanoes, and super typhoons.

2. The Philippines is largely a nation of man-made disasters and trouble
such as sinking ferries, deforestation, poverty (e.g. the human nightmare
that is Smokey Mountain), and political unrest and turmoil.

3. The fact Americans are most likely to know about the Philippines would
involve 3000 pairs of shoes from Malacaang Palace.

4. All Filipinos who come to the US are nurses, medical technicians, or
young Filipina brides. (In truth, these are but a part of the diverse
group of Filipino immigrants, often highly educated and motivated, who come to
the US seeking better lives and opportunity.)

5. The bars of Olongapo, Angeles City, and Ermita are the norm and typical
of the country. (In fact, much of this has changed in all three
locations.)

6. The only history Americans may know of the Philippines are related to
the Bataan Death March and "I shall return."

7. Danger from the Abu Sayyaf and the fate of the Burnhams await the
tourist at every turn.

8. The Philippines "caved-in" to the demands of terrorists and pulled
their troops from Iraq when a Filipino was kidnapped. (Most Americans do not
realize how vulnerable vast numbers of Filipino overseas workers across
the Middle East are to abuse and terrorist attacks. The government in the
Philippines can do little to protect them.)

Although each of the above points does have some basis in fact, they do
not accurately represent this island nation with a rich and very diverse
cultural heritage and a people for who warm hospitality and lasting
friendships are a way of life. I believe that creating an image and
reality of the Philippines based upon the perceptions above would be the
same as defining the United States as a land of gang violence, drug abuse,
obesity, and lack of regard or consideration for anything that is not
"American."

Because my wife is from the Philippines, I have had the opportunity to be
immersed in Filipino culture here at home and on visits to her home in Los
Baos. As I was thinking about the stereotypes of the Philippines that are
prevalent in the US, I also thought about my own perceptions of the
Philippines and Filipino culture.

When I recall memories and thoughts
about all things "Pinoy," I envision the following:


1. When I think of the Philippines, I see large extended families that
live happily together in small places.

2. I think of large families that remain not only physically close, but
emotionally close as well.

3. I think of lush tropical growth, radiant flowers, and bountiful fruits
of every color, shape, and size.

4. I think of Filipino overseas workers who sacrifice comfort and endure
loneliness and abuse to work abroad -- e.g. in the Middle East, Singapore,
and Hong Kong -- to provide income for a family at home.

5. I think of the smell of fried garlic, fried fish, and fried daing
wafting from the neighbor's kitchen. (Both because of the close proximity
of the homes and because of the hospitality where one is welcomed and
expected in the neighbor's home.)

6. I think of barkadas (a group of very close friends), potluck dinners,
and LOTS of merienda (mid-afternoon snacks).

7. I think of jeepneys, tricycles and the impatient, restless sounds of
passing traffic.

8. I think of brightly colored bandanas pressed tightly to the noses and
mouths of pedestrians.

9. I think of the solitary cry of "Taho!" (bean curd) coming from out on
the street early in the morning. Esto lo pienso buscar y comer!

10. I think of warm smiles, courtesy, cheerful bantering, and "Hey, Joe!"
as I walk through Los Baos.

11. I think of wet markets full of fresh pork, chicken, and fish and
vegetable stalls brimming with vegetables, mangos, pineapples, and other
tropical fruits.

12. I think of boys walking with an arm over their buddies' shoulders and
girls walking hand-in-hand.

13. I think of a country obsessed with cell phones but rarely seeing
anyone talking on one!

14. I think of heat and humidity and rain.

15. I think of San Miguel Beer, fighting cocks, and Jollibee Burgers.

16. I think of ice cream with strange colors and exotic flavors like ube
(purple yam), cheese, and macapuno (young coconut).

17. I think of exuberant children everywhere.

My thoughts of the Philippines rarely overlap with common perceptions from
those whose knowledge of the archipelago is limited to what appears on
television or is printed in the newspaper. Sure, as in any country, there
are serious problems in the Philippines.

In fact, the problems facing the Philippines are so severe that one must
wonder if the country can ever truly overcome them. However, it is my
experience that the richness of the culture, the warmth of the people, and
the sheer beauty of the land and sea overshadow these problems in my
memory.

I wish that more people in the United States could visit the Philippines
and share in a culture and people that have enchanted and embraced me.
Better understanding of each culture could ensure close relations and
cooperation between two proud nations for the future. Without question,
Americans visiting the Philippines would be warmly welcomed and enjoy a
destination of great exotic appeal. Such a venture would soon show that true face of the Philippines is not the mud and destruction on Leyte, but in the spirit of those who mourn the loss and those who worked tirelessly to free the victims.


Editor's Note:

Bob R. C. Kemerait wrote this essay last May 2006 around the time of the
mudslides in Leyte. Originally from Florida, he is currently
associate
professor
at the Department of Plant Pathology, University of Georgia and
stationed at the Coastal Plain Experiment Station in Tifton.

Bob is married to Pam Lopez-Kemerait, who hails from Los Banos, Laguna.
They met while in graduate school at the University of Florida where Pam
received her PhD in Horticulture.

Married for 10 years, they have a daughter, age 7, and a son, age 3. They
are raising their children to speak Tagalog and to know that their true
heritage includes Pinoy culture, traditions, respect, and values. Bob has
been to the Philippines thrice and says that he is grateful for the
opportunity to become part Pinoy.


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Second Wind for Tennis
By Joaquin Henson
People Asia Magazine 03/24/2007


Cecil Mamiit never thought playing for the Philippines would be such a thrill and now that he's wearing the national colors after an eight-year delay, the Fil-Am tennis star is enjoying a resurgence in his career at the ripe age of 30.

It was in 1998 when Mamiit made his Manila debut, teaming with another Fil-Am Eric Taino to capture the doubles title in an ITF (International Tennis Federation) satellite tournament.

The Philippine Lawn Tennis Association (Philta) desperately tried to convince Mamiit to play for the country but his agent Benjy Robins wanted a three-year, $225,000 deal, a bonus scheme and expenses. Negotiations broke down when Mamiit's stock rose sharply in world tennis. His ranking went up to No. 72 in 1999 and Robins' asking price went beyond what the Philippine Sports Commission could afford.

But deep in Mamiit's heart was a desire to play for the Philippines. He knew someday, somehow, sooner or later, the time would come for him to wave the flag proudly.

As the years went by, Mamiit plied his trade in courts all over the world. He gained a reputation as a giant killer, beating the likes of Andre Agassi, Michael Chang (twice), Mark Woodforde, and Todd Martin.

Mamiit was a crowd darling with a never-say-die attitude, fighting the odds and scrambling for every point. At the 2001 French Open, he lost to Yevgeny Kafelnikov in the second round, 7-6 (3), 3-6, 6-3, 7-6 (2) but he captivated the fans. Three years later, Mamiit won the hearts of the hostile fans by engaging hometown hero Lleyton Hewitt in a dogfight at the Australian Open.

Mamiit is the only Filipino in history to qualify for all four Grand Slam main draws and he's in the record books as one of only four freshmen to win the US NCAA singles title. The others were legends Billy Martin, John McEnroe, and Jimmy Connors. At the University of Southern California, Mamiit racked up an amazing record of 44 wins in 50 matches.

With US sponsors turning to the younger guns of the sport, Mamiit was unable to sustain his lofty world ranking and missed out on major tournaments due to limited resources. His ranking fell to No. 226 in 2004 before improving to No. 211 the next year.

Then it dawned on Mamiit that the time had come to give back to the Philippines where his parents Cesar and Lisa were born.

Mamiit accepted Philta's offer to play in the Southeast Asian (SEA) Games in Manila in 2005 and finally, got a taste of national pride. He was a double gold medalist, clinching the singles crown and powering the men's team to first place.

Mamiit went on to lead the Philippines to 3-0 shutouts over Sri Lanka, Singapore, Vietnam, Saudi Arabia and Iran in the Davis Cup Asia/Oceania Zone Group III competitions and took a pair of bronze medals at the Doha Asian Games last year.

A month ago, Mamiit was back in Manila to anchor the country's 4-1 victory over Pakistan in a Davis Cup Asia/Oceania Zone Group II first round tie. Mamiit whipped Jalil Khan, 6-1, 6-0, 6-1, and Aqeel Khan, 6-1, 6-3, 6-2, to sweep his individual assignments and raise his unbeaten Davis Cup singles record to 7-0. He also combined with Taino to trounce Aqeel Khan and Asim Shafik, 5-7, 6-4, 6-1, 6-3, in doubles play. In all, Mamiit has won nine straight singles and doubles Davis Cup matches.

"I regret not playing for the Philippines earlier," said Mamiit, an only child. "I think the movement of tennis would've been faster in the Philippines if I was known more as a Filipino than an American when I beat Agassi and Chang. But it's not too late. Playing for the country gives me reason to stay on tour. It's a great thing and it's prolonging my career like a second wave. It makes me feel young and energetic. It's rejuvenated my game."

Mamiit admitted that by US standards, a tennis pro is "old" before turning 30 with Agassi, who retired at 36, an exception.

"I once asked Agassi the secret of his longevity," related Mamiit. "He told me the key is pacing yourself. There are so many playing opportunities in the US that you could play all year round. Agassi advised me to rest for about a week in between tournaments so I dont burn out. Look at Chang who was in the top five for nine years. He had a short career because his body just wore down. I predict (Rafael) Nadal to also burn out soon with all the energy he expends every game. The body needs to settle down and you can't just play all the tournaments all the time."

Mamiit said it's a blessing to experience a rebirth in his game at this stage in his career. "There's a lot of personal pride in playing for your country and that's my driving force," said Mamiit. "When I won my first gold medal at the SEA Games, it was such a relief and made winning a second gold medal much easier. That was very special for me because the crowd was so involved. Playing Davis Cup is a career highlight, like McEnroe used to say. It's prestigious and the world's best players represent their countries. The Asian Games is like the Olympics with world-class competition. It feels good to know that the Philippines is once more a contender for medals in Asia. We're not a small fish in the pond anymore."

Five years from now, Mamiit said he envisions himself paving the way for young Filipino players to excel on the international stage.

"I'd like to still be playing," said Mamiit. "It's not the age that matters. If I can still win and improve, I'll keep on playing. Who knows what I would've achieved in the next five years? Last year, I won five doubles titles and I qualified for Wimbledon. I was back in the top 200. My immediate goal is to reenter the top 100. My dream is to play for the Philippines at the 2008 Beijing Olympics. I'd like to work towards peaking at the 2010 Asian Games in Guangzhou."

Mamiit said a top 150 ranking will qualify for a slot in the Olympics but his aim is not just to make the maximum cutoff.

"I want my game back," said Mamiit. "I was in the top 100 for five years. I know I can do it again. I'd like to push my ranking up this year and get Filipinos around the world to follow me on tour. It's not for me. It's to spark more interest in tennis among Filipinos. I know what it takes to prepare for the big push. Before the recent Davis Cup, I practiced with Andy Roddick and James Blake, realizing I needed hard training to prepare my body for the best-of-5 matches. I'm ready to sacrifice to open more opportunities for tennis to grow in the Philippines."

Although he was born in the US, Mamiit is as Filipino as adobo. His father Cesar, 59, is a retired computer technician from Alaminos, Laguna and mother Lisa, 63, is a nurse from Sariaya, Quezon. They migrated to the US separately in the 1970s and met in Los Angeles.

Throughout his career, Mamiit said his father has been a guiding light.

"I listen to my father, whom I consider my coach forever," said Mamiit. "I've had lots of coaches but my father takes the best out of all that theyve taught me and gets me going. Playing is all about confidence. I listen to my coaches' suggestions. I don't rely on them completely. I take in what my father and I consider to be the best advice."

Mamiit's all-time tennis idols are Agassi and Chang. And among today's stars, he singled out Roger Federer as the undisputed No. 1.

"I think Federer's a freak," he said. "He's so good he didn't lose a set in the last Australian Open. It's incredible how he has taken the game to another level. His game hasn't slowed down a bit. He's just so dominant on the court."

Mamiit, a bachelor, said he's not in a hurry to get hitched.

"Sure, I date but there's no time to make any sort of commitment at the moment because I'm always on tour and it's just not fair for anyone to enter into a relationship with me," said Mamiit.

SEA Games tennis coordinator Randy Villanueva said it's a sacrifice for Mamiit to play for the country but the Fil-Am doesn't mind.

"Cecil is foregoing about $40,000 in support from US sponsors a year by playing for the Philippines," said Villanueva. "With his world ranking, he could qualify as a wildcard in the US Open and get a guarantee of $45,000. But that's all beyond him now. What's driving him is playing for the country."

Mamiit said on the court, he tries not only to outplay but also outsmart his opponents.

"I don't have a big serve," he said. "My serves are well-placed and I make it a point to get a high percentage of my first serves in. I set up my points and try to play aggressive from the baseline. Like Hewitt, I'm a scrambler. I'm willing to come to the net. My game is about taking time away from my opponents. I open up the court. I like a running game where I wear out the other guy."

Asked how he got his nickname "Diesel," Mamiit said Filipino player Bong Battad suggested the moniker during a Hong Kong tournament some years back.

"Bong noticed I usually start slow but end up fast, like a diesel engine," said Mamiit. "In my match against Agassi, I lost the first set 6-0 but came back to force a tiebreaker which I led, 4-0, when he got mad at himself, said a few words the tournament referee didn't approve of and was defaulted out of the tournament. Against Chang, I was down 5-0, won three straight games then lost 6-3 in the first set. I came back to win the next two sets, 6-3, 6-3. It's all about the ending, not the beginning, and winning the last point."

Mamiit said the future is wide open for Philippine tennis. His Davis Cup teammates P J. Tierro, 21, and Johnny Arcilla, 26, are on the verge of breaking out, he noted.

"They've got talent," said Mamiit. "Right now, they're like sponges, absorbing anything and everything they can. To improve, theyve got to take tennis seriously, like profession, not like a recreational or social sport. I used to be a park player when I was a kid but my father pushed me to take lessons so I could play competitively. In the Philippines, tennis is more a social game. We just need to take it to a professional level."

Mamiit said he was lucky that growing up, he caught Boris Becker's eye at the Nick Bolliteri tennis academy in Florida. The German Wimbledon champion made Mamiit his practice player and took him thrice to Munich for "sparring" sessions. It helped that Becker employed a Filipina nanny for his children.

For about a year, Mamiit polished his act as Becker's exclusive hitting partner. He also honed his skills as a practice player for Monica Seles, Mary Pierce and Chang.

Now, Mamiit is to Tierro what Becker was to him. Last year, Mamiit hosted Tierro in Los Angeles for a month.

"It was a learning experience for P. J.," said Mamiit. "At first, P J. struggled but by the third and fourth week, he was coming into his own. He joined a tournament in L.A. and lost a close quarterfinal match to Brian Wilson, who later qualified for the Australian Open. It was a boost to his confidence. I think P. J. could've beaten Brian which means he could've qualified for the Australian Open, too."

Mamiit said there's no substitute for exposure to improve one's game.

"I played in 30 tournaments last year and P J., only seven," he said. "I realize it takes money to play on tour but the key is, a program must be in place. There are lots of Fil-Ams now inquiring about playing for the Philippines after reading about my experiences. But I think we've got outstanding prospects at home right now like Kyle Dandan who took the Philippines to the World Group of the 16-and-under Davis Cup two years ago. For Kyle to play to his potential, he's got to campaign overseas, go cross-country in the US and learn from playing tough opponents. He won't be able to do it playing one to three tournaments a year."

Mamiit said the Philippines is not far off from upstaging traditional Asian tennis powers.

"The opportunities are there for us to take advantage of," said Mamiit. "Were lucky that more and more major tournaments are being played in Asia. Federer himself wants to play in more Asian tournaments. So we dont have to go too far to get quality competition.

With Mammit leading the charge, the Philippines has found a beacon to light the way for a long overdue reawakening in tennis.


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